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The Sweet Sound of Silence

"Ordinary life does not interest me." Anais Nin

“Ordinary life does not interest me.” Anais Nin

Silence has a beautiful sound. It’s a matter of allowing yourself the time and space to experience it.

A friend asked me recently, “why haven’t you blogged lately?” My response is that I don’t always have something to say. It takes me a while to take in experiences before I can form a point of view that is not influenced by someone else’s opinion but truly my own, therefore genuine.

Anais Nin once wrote, “my ideas usually come not at my desk writing but in the midst of living.” I’ve written my books on the road, in conversation, in the kitchen, in relationships, and any number of ways. I’ve written by simply living as deeply as I possibly can, ploughing through one experience at a time, taking in all the wonderful people I’ve met, foods I’ve enjoyed, places I’ve discovered.

My silence is for the love of sharing what I have seen, smelled, heard, tasted, and touched. But, pulling back the layers takes time and I am in no hurry. My discipline is not based on a deadline but on a lifestyle that is free-form, and I’ve never missed a crucial deadline as a result. We are all unique. We all work differently and recognizing one’s individual process and talent is important. It can make a world of difference to the way we react to things and how we relate to others, in writing or otherwise.

I owe my personal success, which can be measured in any number of ways, to learning how to hear the sweet sound of silence. Give me peace and I will pave a smoother more direct road than you might otherwise experience.

So in response to my friend. I write when I have something to say. Sometimes it’s a recipe. Sometimes it’s a thought. It’s always my truth.

The Balanced Meal


A balanced meal: mushroom broth, jasmine rice (starch) w/ginger, sweet & sour pickled radishes, fermented tofu (protein), stir-fried chrysanthemum greens.

What constitutes a balanced meal? Believe it or not, I’ve been asked on many occasions. This question generally takes me back to my Asian upbringing, where balance is key to living a good life. Yin and yang—opposite forces that complement each other to form a whole—is what Asian cooks aspire to when creating meals, whether at home or in a restaurant setting. For us, it is a guiding principle from the time we are born and given our first solid meal. And because Yin and Yang is not just a principle practiced in the kitchen, but applied to everything in life, it is deeply ingrained in our psyche.

In Asia, breakfast, lunch and dinner hold the same importance and include the same components, a starch, a protein, vegetables, and often times broth for sipping and cleansing the palate between bites. At the end of the meal, fresh fruit and loose leaf tea are enjoyed to aid digestion. It’s a very simple concept. Eat a little of everything, whether vegetarian or not.

A balanced meal is not only about making sure all the food groups are present, but about developing flavors to satisfy our taste buds. Sweet, sour, salty, spicy, bitter— tastes sensations in food— is a combination used as a measuring tool for balance and what we look for in our meals, whether aware or not. Umame is yet another one of these sensations uniquely present in monosodium glutamate, which is naturally occurring in many leafy greens. Though the taste is hard to describe, and somewhat different from yet similar to salt, it is present to gently tickle the senses and awaken your taste buds. In Asia all these taste sensations are present throughout the meal, so much so that dessert such as cake or ice cream is considered unnecessary and never part of the meal, our palates already satisfied by the sweet element we’ve been enjoying all along.

The pressing question still remains. How do we get all of these tastes in a single meal? It’s really quite simple. If making a marinade combining salty soy sauce with sweet sugar, bitter garlic, spicy chilies, and sour rice vinegar for any protein you might enjoy, you’re half way there. A bowl of rice provides a canvas upon which all these flavors can land. Complete the meal with stir-fried leafy greens with garlic, lightly drizzle with soy sauce, and a light broth to sip on the side, and you’ve achieved your goal. A broth could be as quickly to make as a 2-minute miso soup, so don’t let that stop you in achieving balance at every meal, which can be served in 20 minutes, the time it takes rice to cook.

How can we apply Yin and Yang in the western kitchen? It’s easy. Just look for the same taste sensations when developing a meal. A salad has a vinaigrette and in it sour vinegar, spicy mustard (perhaps a touch of the ever so popular Sriracha), salty salt, bitter onion or garlic, and a touch of sweet honey. The umame is in the lettuce! That’s one example. Pasta with freshly made tomato sauce can also have these elements, the tomato itself providing the sweet and tart element, and from there the grated salty Parmesan protein, and the spicy red pepper flakes, with the bitter note from sautéed broccoli rabe on the side.

Pick a cuisine and throw in some Yin and Yang. You’ll see how easy it is to accomplish, if you put your mind to it.

Creating balance in a meal is so much more than developing that sensory experience, however. It should be aesthetically pleasing as well. Taking the time to create a visually appealing meal whether you are cooking for one, two or more, should be just as important. I’ve always been fascinated with Japanese aesthetics, particularly in the kitchen. There a simple bowl of rice is always decorated with something, from chopped scallions, to pickled daikon, freshly julienned ginger, or perhaps a sprinkling of toasted sesame seeds. Taking care to cook something beautiful requires patience and total focus and engagement. It is a meditative act that is well worth while. For one you eat visually, long before you sit down to actually taste the food. You’ll wind up needing very little food to satisfy both body and mind, allowing air (space) to do its work and aid digestion.

Last but not least, just as you need to breathe, so should you leave some white space on the plate!

Eat to live rather than live to eat. You’ll feel the difference.

Pickled Curry String Beans

IMG_2291Pickles. What’s there not to like? They’re refreshing, crunchy, juicy, and bursting with tangy, sweet, and savory flavors. They’re the perfect condiment. In a pinch you can serve them with cheese. They can be chopped and served over a bowl of rice, a humble meal served in many parts of Asia. They complement all sorts of grilled or roasted meat and fish proteins, and more. More importantly, they’re easy to make and you can make lots of them ahead of time. For a busy working person, that might be just enough of a reason to go out and grab a basket full of produce to experiment with, using my basic Asian-style pickling liquid.

Here I use yellow and green string beans, but this recipe is excellent with Persian cucumbers or cauliflower as well. Feel free to experiment with cabbage too or cherry green tomatoes.




Be sure to use unseasoned rice vinegar, as the seasoned version already has salt and sugar. It is better to control the amount of sugar and salt. Anything pickled will last a few weeks, even months, but guaranteed these won’t last a week, because they’re that good.

(makes 1 quart)

1 teaspoon kosher salt
1 tablespoon sugar
2 cups unseasoned plain rice or white vinegar
2 teaspoons Indian curry powder
1 teaspoon coriander seeds
1 teaspoon black peppercorns
3 large garlic cloves, peeled
5 ounces green string beans (about 1-1/4 cup), stem end trimmed
5 ounces yellow string beans (about 1-1/4 cup), stem end trimmed

1) in a mixing bowl, add the salt and sugar. Whisk in the vinegar until the sugar and and salt dissolve completely. (Do not try to melt over heat or you will weaken the flavor of the vinegar). Stir in the curry, coriander seeds and peppercorns.

2) In a wide-mouthed quart jar, place the string beans vertically. Add the garlic cloves, scattering and pushing them in a bit, then whisk and pour in the pickling liquid. Refrigerate for 1 week for optimum flavor. If you like the string beans more firm, try them after 2 days. If you like them softer, let them macerate for 2 weeks or longer.

NOTE: though there is sugar and salt in the pickling liquid, understand that when eating these string beans the actual amount of sugar and salt going into your body is negligible. It’s all in the liquid, which presumably you will not be drinking!

HEALTH BENEFITS: Vitamin A, B1, B2, B3, B6, C, K, iron, calcium, folate, potassium, protein, fiber… an antioxidant as well. Eat your beans!

This recipe is adapted from my upcoming book, “Switch-It-Up: 50 Recipes for Perfectly Portioned Meals for Prediabetes, Diabetes, and Heart Health” to be published in 2015 by the American Diabetes Association.  Also check out my other book “Asian Flavors Diabetes Cookbook,” which won a 2013 Nautilus Book Award.



Spice Up Your Food

10404210_10204785147620131_6278998220247373730_n… and I don’t necessarily mean with hot chilies, though in small quantities, that’s always nice!

Spices are excellent for your health. They can be”warming” and are believed to help fight all sorts of illnesses from common colds to more serious cancers, diabetes and heart disease. So while many people might stick to salt and pepper, when spices are added to food, as is the tradition in many Asian food cultures, you might just find that it makes your meals so delicious that a little will go a long way, skipping seconds, which is key in maintaining a healthy weight.

Many studies show that the more blend your food, the more likely you are to keep eating looking for more interesting flavors until you find them. When you introduce spices, adding complex layers of flavor to your meals, you approach food in a different way. Perhaps you eat more slowly, savoring every bite, truly engaging your senses. And let’s face it, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to know that introducing a good amount of plant-based food to your diet, can only do you good. So don’t feel like you have to study herbal medicine before adding herbs and spices to your meal. Just do and switch them up. Your complexion will improve because your body will slowly but surely get rid of toxins. Anything worth its weight in gold takes time.

Every day, I spice up my food (and also add lots of fresh herbs). It’s common sense. Herbal medicine in both Asian cultures and other ancient (Greek and Roman, for instance) traditions always used herbs to help detox and general heal the body. In order for herbs and spices to have an effect on the body, it’s important to include them in daily meals in various combinations. I switch them up often to get various nutrients that are necessary to maintain proper health. Our bodies go through a lot. We live in an environment that is less than perfect. Getting sick, especially in crowded cities, is easy. I encourage you to practice prevention by eating lots of plant based foods, incorporated herbs and spices.

Here is an easy method for making a fragrant oil condiment you can drizzle over any number of vegetarian, seafood and meat dishes. Enjoy! … don’t know what to give for Christmas, how about a nice fragrant oil?


Feel free to create your own spiced oil. If you want to add cinnamon, orange peel, ginger and or star anise, do so. Have fun with this.

(Makes 1 cup; 1 teaspoon serving size)

1 cup coconut oil
2 teaspoons coriander seeds
2 tablespoons onion seeds
1 tablespoon cumin seeds
7 green cardamom pods
3 black cardamom pods
7 curry leaves
3 cassia leaves
2 dried red chilies

In a small pot over medium heat, add the coconut oil and toast the spices until they pop (but do not burn them), about 1 minute. Remove from heat, let cool and transfer to a heatproof glass jar.

Thanksgiving French Butternut Squash Tart

IMG_1750I’ve never been a fan of pumpkin pie. In fact I think I’ve tasted it may be once or twice. It must be the sweet dense texture and the fact that most of them are made from canned pumpkin mix that makes me shy away from this Thanksgiving classic.

When it comes to pastries in general, French tarts are my go-to, whether sweet or savory. My mother has always made a French butternut squash tart for Thanksgiving, ever since we’ve been celebrating the holiday. Diced, the squash is scattered, along with onions and herbs, atop a thinly rolled out, flaky butter crust. Here is the recipe for this very easy savory tart.

Happy Thanksgiving!


The trick to having a flaky crust is to not over-knead it. Also be sure the butter is chilled and you work fast incorporating it with flour. An egg, though not necessary, results in a super flaky pastry. Tip: Shape the dough, pressing it against 1/2 sheet pan (18″ x 13″) or tart mold. You can also free form it, but be sure to roll it out thin, about 1/16-inch thick.

(serves 8)

3/4 cup all-purpose flour, plus extra for kneading
3/4 cup whole-wheat flour
1 stick salted butter (1/4 cup), chilled and diced
1 to 3 tablespoons chilled water
1 large egg (optional)

On a clean and floured work surface, sift together both flours, forming a mound. Scatter the chilled butter. With your fingertips, quickly work the butter into the flour until the mixture looks crumbly. It doesn’t need to be uniform. In fact some large clumps are acceptable. Make a well in the center and add the water OR the egg. Start gathering the flour toward the wet ingredients, gradually mixing them together until well combined but still crumbly. Without kneading, press the dough together into a ball. Flatten and wrap with plastic. Refrigerate for 30 minutes.


(serves 8)

1 large butternut squash, peeled, seeded and cut into 1/2 dice
1 large yellow or red onion, peeled and chopped
1/2 bunch flat or curly parsley, leaves only
6 sprigs fresh thyme, leaves only
Salt and pepper to taste


Preheat oven to 400°F for 20 minutes.

Meanwhile, scatter some flour on a clean work surface and roll out the dough thin in any shape you wish to either fit a specific tart mold, 1/2 sheet pan, or to free form. Scatter the butternut squash, onions, parsley and thyme. Season with salt and pepper and bake until golden, about 45 minutes.